Should We Get Married ? SHOULD WE GET MARRIED ? GETTING MARRIED FOR THE WRONG REASONS – IS THIS RIGHT OF WRONG? LET’S FIND OUT … Are we married or are we not ?
There are so many reasons why people get married; some for love, some , because of age; that is maturity, some because of lust, some for no reason.. and on and on …
The most annoying ones to me are the ones I will be sharing with you today.
But know this ; no matter what the reasons are, you can still have a good , sweet and happy marriage if only you can learn one or two things about marriage on how to get things right.
Should we get married ? 3 most annoying reasons
Because all your mates are married: One thing we should get clear here is this : marriage is not a contest or a thing of competition. For the fact that it seemed as though all your mates are married and you seem to be the only one left is not enough reason to rush into marriage. Without any deep thought of what you are doing; getting married or settling with any available person that comes your way just because all your mates are married is certainly one most annoying reason.
Marrying because you need financial support: Even when you know too well that there’s no chemistry between both of you, you act like you don’t care all because you need some financial help. A person that can help pay some of your bills…if not all. this is another annoying reason to me.
Marrying a person out of PITY : This is the most annoying one. When you marry someone out of pity, you will end up becoming frustrated because you will not be happy in that marriage. You will not have the joy and satisfaction a marriage brings. Marrying a person out of pity will make you live in anger in your marriage.
Marriage is a life time journey. So for this reason, it is important that when choosing a life partner, you have to choose someone that is compatible, you have to choose someone you have affection for, you have to choose someone that you LOVE because you will be be living and seeing that person almost everyday of your life. As a smart and beautiful lady, you need a guy that can Man up to responsibilities and show you some respect and above all, you need a man that loves you. So, take your time so you don’t make a life time mistake because marriage is a life time journey…except you are ready to divorce along the way. There’s a true man out there that is yours.
Should we get married …written by chichi.
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