Building Self Worth … this happens when your self worth is determined by others…
Flourish and ken have been engaged for over five years. Their relationship have suffered many break up and experience make-up. Flourish, a lady in her mid thirties desperately needed to settle down in marriage but Ken is still catching his fun by going from one night club to the other ; changing women like underwear.
Flourish have done all she could to keep the relationship going but Ken have frustrated every of her move ; knowing too well that she badly needed the relationship ( their union). Flourish, thinking that because age is not really on her side, she accepted and tolerated all the nonsense done to her by Ken.
The most annoying of them all was an incident that happened the day she came visiting Ken. Since Ken was not expecting her on this day, he’s been having fun with another girl when Flourish came knowing. For over 10 minutes she stood by the door knocking , there was no response. But some how, as she turned to leave, there comes Ken and another lady walking hand in hand as they entered the compound.
Flourish stood speechless for a while with her mouth wide open in shock and by the time she finally found her voice, she manage to ask who the lady was. Like one hit below the belt, she felt so much pain when Ken without mixing words introduced the lady as his wife to be.
What about me? Who am I to you she asked with a trembling voice. But Ken said nothing , still holding his new catch, he entered his apartment with the new lady. Flourish could not believe all this were happening to her.
About one hour thirty minutes later (1:30), Ken was too surprised to still see Flourish sitting at the entrance of his apartment. As soon as he was done seeing the other lady off, he asked Flourish to come inside the house and prepare something for him to eat.
This Happens When Your Self Worth is Determined by Other
In no time, the food was ready and served. After eating, seeing that she lacked the courage to question him any further on the matter at hand, he utilized the moment and requested for a nude picture of her. Threatening her that that was the only condition to keep their relationship going. She said nothing to defend herself for all she did was to beg him.Lots of women suffer in silence.
Ken please I beg you with everything good in this world, please don’t do this to me; what you have requested in too impossible; she said in tears. Impossible, you say? Ken asked. Well that shows you don’t love me because if you do, you wouldn’t think twice but go ahead and do as I have said.
Many weeks have passed, Ken have refused to call and even pick Flourish calls. And she is beginning to consider granting his request. She loves Ken so much and she thinks that without Ken, marriage would be too impossible for her.
To cut the story short, her blossom friend that she confided in talked some senses in her and she had a rethink on what she was about doing.
Building Self Worth …
She managed to pick up the courage to tell Ken to his face that she wouldn’t grant his request. He called off the engagement and both went their separate ways. Time , they say is the greatest healer of wounds, three years after, after spending quality time building self worth , she became a completely transforming person with a meaningful job and a fat monthly Pay ; all thanks to her blossom friend. She finally got married to the CEO of the company where she works. Read more on: Are we married?
Moral From This : building self worth will help you express yourself. Building Self Worth will give you the confidence and courage to conquer at any given time. Read More On : Where Are You Going?